Accept the only constant thing 'Change'

Leave a Comment

Accept the only constant thing...'Change'


One of the famous line about life “Change is the only constant thing in life”.


Maybe after knowing the fact also we try to change the things which are not in our hand or on the other-hand we don't accept the change and become stubborn but thing is that those who go through life with a seemingly unaffected attitude are the people who understand the angles of life and the differences between what can be changed and what cannot. In understanding those differences, they are able to move on and enjoy life as it’s presented. Accept your regrets as moments passed that have nothing to do with you now and stop bringing them into your life. You can’t change your past mistakes, but you can change how you make up for them.

Accept your imperfections, change your idea of beauty.

There’s nothing you can do about your long arms or your elbow knees. You can’t fix your big ears or your even bigger feet, but you can change how you feel about them. Your imperfections are only imperfections as long as you make them so and it’s up to you to accept yourself, flaws and all.
Beauty is a standard that we make up ourselves and no one can define it objectively. Tell yourself you’re beautiful and let your imperfections become defining qualities rather than flaws you wish you could get rid of, because you never will.

Life is too short not to be making the best out of situations and fretting over things that cannot be changed. Learn to adjust your expectations and change your outlook so you don’t waste moments that could have been great ones. Your body is your temple, and though you can't always change it, you should take care of it. Do not destroy it, respect it the same way you take care of your own home.

Accept where you are now, change where you’re going.

You may not like where you are now, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have the power to change where you’re going. Only the weak let their current situation determine their future one.
The strong and the passionate take charge of their futures and don’t let their surroundings stop them from getting somewhere else.
Fate has a weird way of showing us that we aren’t always in control over what happens to us, but it does tell us that we can make our own paths, even if we can’t see where it will lead. If you want to change what’s happening to you, change your path.

Accept those who hurt you, change who you surround yourself with.

Hurt you once, shame on them. Hurt you twice, you're a masochist. If someone hurts you, there's nothing you can do, but use the pain and the knowledge of that pain to refuse to let it happen again. Surrounding yourself with people who are only going to hurt you is like deliberately cutting yourself.
Pain is supposed to teach you a lesson, to keep you from making the same mistake twice. Learn from those who did you wrong and choose the next person you let into your life with trepidation and the knowledge of that pain.

Accept the things you can’t change, change the things you can’t accept.

There are some things, like the weather and the stock market, that you cannot change. However, there’s always something you can do. If you hate the cold, move to Hawaii. If you hate losing money in the stock market, start a company that will get you big earnings.
If you absolutely can’t accept something, then you must make bold moves to change it. However, the sooner you start accepting the things you cannot change, the happier you will be. The more you change the things you refuse to accept, the greater person you will become.


Change the way you approach your problems

Whenever you are overwhelmed with problems in your life, or feel low and depressed, don’t feel bad- but just try to change the way you approach your problems. Try to work harder, study more, be flexible, think from a new angle, start all over again, and don’t forget to pray to God!

Be patient

When you have to accept change, sometimes you may want to get it over with and move on as fast as possible. But the cycle of change often takes longer than you expect, as the change has to be analyzed, communicated, integrated, and time is required to adjust to it as well.

Atlast,One can be happier and more peaceful when one accepted what had happened instead of constantly fighting to change things. Yes, acceptance is a choice—a hard one most definitely, but a choice nonetheless. Accept what’s happening, see the positive, and choose a peaceful state of mind; or fight against it, be miserable, and struggle against the universe. Acceptance, in my opinion, is the key to convert momentary happiness to enduring happiness. It helps you move from feeling happy to actually being happy.

Be Brave..Be positive..Be Happy..Keep Smiling!!
Read More