Accept the only constant thing...'Change'
One of the famous line about life “Change
is the only constant thing in life”.
Maybe
after knowing the fact also we try to change the things which are not
in our hand or on the other-hand we don't accept the change and
become stubborn but thing is that those who go through life with a
seemingly unaffected attitude are the people who understand the
angles of life and the differences between what can be changed and
what cannot. In understanding those differences, they are able to
move on and enjoy life as it’s presented.
Accept
your regrets as moments passed that have nothing to do with you now
and stop bringing them into your life. You can’t change your past
mistakes, but you can change how you make up for them.
Accept your imperfections, change your idea of beauty.
There’s
nothing you can do about your long arms or your elbow knees. You
can’t fix your big ears or your even bigger feet, but you can
change how you feel about them. Your imperfections are only
imperfections as long as you make them so and it’s up to you to
accept yourself, flaws and all.
Beauty
is a standard that we make up ourselves and no one can define it
objectively. Tell yourself you’re beautiful and let your
imperfections become defining qualities rather than flaws you wish
you could get rid of, because you never will.
Life
is too short not to be making the best out of situations and fretting
over things that cannot be changed. Learn to adjust your expectations
and change your outlook so you don’t waste moments that could have
been great ones. Your
body is your temple, and though you can't always change it, you
should take care of it. Do not destroy it, respect it the same way
you take care of your own home.
Accept where you are now, change where you’re going.
You
may not like where you are now, but that doesn’t mean you don’t
have the power to change where you’re going. Only the weak let
their current situation determine their future one.
The
strong and the passionate take charge of their futures and don’t
let their surroundings stop them from getting somewhere else.
Fate
has a weird way of showing us that we aren’t always in control over
what happens to us, but it does tell us that we can make our own
paths, even if we can’t see where it will lead. If you want to
change what’s happening to you, change your path.
Accept those who hurt you, change who you surround yourself with.
Hurt
you once, shame on them. Hurt you twice, you're a masochist. If
someone hurts you, there's nothing you can do, but use the pain and
the knowledge of that pain to refuse to let it happen again.
Surrounding yourself with people who are only going to hurt you is
like deliberately cutting yourself.
Pain
is supposed to teach you a lesson, to keep you from making the same
mistake twice. Learn from those who did you wrong and choose the next
person you let into your life with trepidation and the knowledge of
that pain.
Accept the things you can’t change, change the things you can’t accept.
There
are some things, like the weather and the stock market, that you
cannot change. However, there’s always something you can do. If you
hate the cold, move to Hawaii. If you hate losing money in the stock
market, start a company that will get you big earnings.
If
you absolutely can’t accept something, then you must make bold
moves to change it. However, the sooner you start accepting the
things you cannot change, the happier you will be. The more you
change the things you refuse to accept, the greater person you will
become.
Change
the way you approach your problems
Whenever
you are overwhelmed with problems in your life, or feel low and
depressed, don’t feel bad- but just try to change the way you
approach your problems. Try to work harder, study more, be flexible,
think from a new angle, start all over again, and don’t forget to
pray to God!
Be
patient
When
you have to accept change, sometimes you may want to get it over with
and move on as fast as possible. But the cycle of change often takes
longer than you expect, as the change has to be analyzed,
communicated, integrated, and time is required to adjust to it as
well.
Atlast,One
can be happier and more peaceful when one accepted what had happened
instead of constantly fighting to change things. Yes, acceptance is a
choice—a hard one most definitely, but a choice nonetheless. Accept
what’s happening, see the positive, and choose a peaceful
state of mind;
or fight against it, be miserable, and struggle against the universe.
Acceptance,
in my opinion, is the key to convert momentary happiness to enduring
happiness. It helps you move from feeling
happy
to actually being
happy.
Be Brave..Be positive..Be Happy..Keep Smiling!!
