"Focus on what you have and not what you don't have"

"Focus on what you have and not what you don't have"

1.  Always remember to focus on finding solutions of the problems rather than crying on problem. If you think about problem more and more you will get more and more problem's.

"Focus on the solution and not on the problem's"

2.  We always have two options in life, being positive about everything happening around or being negative about all the things. It all depends upon how you train your mind to think and take decisions about situation.

"Train your mind to perceive things only in best possible way"

3.Most of the time we stop thinking good about life after sudden bad series of incidents,but do remember coin alway has two sides.Stop worrying about futuristic's things which might be never ever going happen.Be happy in present,don't spoil your present by worrying
about tomorrow's troubles. 

"Being positive is the best thing you can do for yourself"

4. A man is said be statue of mistakes. Everyone is going to do mistakes but what will make you an extraordinary person is after someones mistake also you focus on good things someone did for you and you get away with his mistakes by being positive.

"Focus on someones right rather than blaming for small wrongdoing"

5. The biggest thing about true and long lasting relations is about focusing what a great dedication,commitment and unconditional love you posses for your partner and not the small things on which you shout at each momentarily because those things and that situation will pass away with time but you wont get your loved one back again.Always have relation like rubber if you stretch rubber in limit and leave it then it comes more close in same you go away and fought with each other for some reason then leave the things and focus on each-other,respect and understand each-others thoughts and love again like never before.

"Never be Apart who completes your life's every part"

6. In this beautiful life we cry for small small things which we do not posses rather than focusing on what all wonderful things we have.Never compare your life with others. If you don’t have branded,costly shoes then think of someone who even don’t have legs to wear those shoes. If you are not happy with what food you are eating think of someone who even don’t get to eat everyday’s two time meal also. Always feel blessed for what you are having and instead of complaining be brave enough to help others who are needy then just see how much internal happiness you will get for doing small things for others because what you have right now at this moment must someone’s dream to have in their entire life.

“Focus on what you have and not on what you don’t have..!!”

Be Happy and Make Happy..!!

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Believe in youself to be successful..!!

Beautiful quotes about success..!!

1.Be happy in happening life. Don't be afraid to do things which are                     unorthodox.

         Be happy for being Alive..!!

2. Don't worry about win or lose.Life is a game and in game there are times when you win and there are times when you lose but never give up and keep working and success will eventually come towards you.

Walk on your own path which will lead you to success..!!

3.Trust... Life always give you chance to show your magic to  

   universe,just keep knocking those door of opportunity,hold you 

   passion,dedication and commitment and trust yourself and nature.

Trust yourself till thing eventually falls on place..!!

4.There is no shortcut to success,either you need to extra smart or you need to 

   extra hardworking but there no direct elevator to achieve big things in life.If 

   you want to have sustainable success you need to follow and know about 

   every footsteps you take towards your success journey.

Look at every small footsteps as stepping stones of life..!!

Be Happy and Make Happy..!!

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NEVER GIVE UP..!!

NEVER GIVE UP..!!

I know some of you are tired of fighting since long long time..
Tired of being told that you can’t achieve your dreams
You won’t achieve your goals
The things in life, you want to do, you can’t do
The things you want in life are unreachable…
I know you are tired of hearing that.

But let me tell you a magic..a magic to get into that zone where you can achieve whatever things you wants in your life..
Because TODAY i want you to FIGHT BACK
FIGHT BACK for what you believe in.
FIGHT BACK for what you want to achieve
FIGHT for your dreams
FIGHT for your goals

Yes I know! They told you!
You can’t do this.
You might as well give up
You will never achieve what you set out to achieve…
Well,
 That’s the thing about greatness,
About being a champion
No one expected you to make it, but YOU GO OUT AND DO IT ANYWAY.

Prove them wrong.

 PROVE THEM WRONG!
Greatness is not just about the money
It’s about the achievements.
It’s about doing something that others doubted
It’s about listening to the doubters, then making them eat their own words.
AND YOU CAN DO IT
I guarantee, you can do it.
If you put 101% in
TODAY IS THE DAY YOU DO IT!.
TODAY is the day you succeed!
TODAY is the day you prevail!
TODAY is the day you walk over your enemies.!

And you reach that moment in your life.
Where you become that person
That others can look to
 and say
He went though it. She Went though it. AND I CAN DO IT!

MAKE SURE, EVERYTHING you do
You are trying to reach greatness
You are trying to succeed
You are putting your BEST EFFORT FORWARD
EVERY DAY!
Not just today
But EVERY DAY
FIGHT BACK Every today.
Today, and every other day.
One thing is for sure, nothing beats character and nothing beats hard work
Not today, not any other day.

So Go for it..
Rock the world,kill it with you attitude..
And last but not the least
NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP..!!

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Accept the only constant thing 'Change'

Accept the only constant thing...'Change'

One of the famous line about life “Change is the only constant thing in life”.

Maybe after knowing the fact also we try to change the things which are not in our hand or on the other-hand we don't accept the change and become stubborn but thing is that those who go through life with a seemingly unaffected attitude are the people who understand the angles of life and the differences between what can be changed and what cannot. In understanding those differences, they are able to move on and enjoy life as it’s presented. Accept your regrets as moments passed that have nothing to do with you now and stop bringing them into your life. You can’t change your past mistakes, but you can change how you make up for them.

Accept your imperfections, change your idea of beauty.

There’s nothing you can do about your long arms or your elbow knees. You can’t fix your big ears or your even bigger feet, but you can change how you feel about them. Your imperfections are only imperfections as long as you make them so and it’s up to you to accept yourself, flaws and all.

Beauty is a standard that we make up ourselves and no one can define it objectively. Tell yourself you’re beautiful and let your imperfections become defining qualities rather than flaws you wish you could get rid of, because you never will.

Life is too short not to be making the best out of situations and fretting over things that cannot be changed. Learn to adjust your expectations and change your outlook so you don’t waste moments that could have been great ones. Your body is your temple, and though you can't always change it, you should take care of it. Do not destroy it, respect it the same way you take care of your own home.

Accept where you are now, change where you’re going.

You may not like where you are now, but that doesn’t mean you don’t have the power to change where you’re going. Only the weak let their current situation determine their future one.

The strong and the passionate take charge of their futures and don’t let their surroundings stop them from getting somewhere else.

Fate has a weird way of showing us that we aren’t always in control over what happens to us, but it does tell us that we can make our own paths, even if we can’t see where it will lead. If you want to change what’s happening to you, change your path.

Accept those who hurt you, change who you surround yourself with.

Hurt you once, shame on them. Hurt you twice, you're a masochist. If someone hurts you, there's nothing you can do, but use the pain and the knowledge of that pain to refuse to let it happen again. Surrounding yourself with people who are only going to hurt you is like deliberately cutting yourself.

Pain is supposed to teach you a lesson, to keep you from making the same mistake twice. Learn from those who did you wrong and choose the next person you let into your life with trepidation and the knowledge of that pain.

Accept the things you can’t change, change the things you can’t accept.

There are some things, like the weather and the stock market, that you cannot change. However, there’s always something you can do. If you hate the cold, move to Hawaii. If you hate losing money in the stock market, start a company that will get you big earnings.

If you absolutely can’t accept something, then you must make bold moves to change it. However, the sooner you start accepting the things you cannot change, the happier you will be. The more you change the things you refuse to accept, the greater person you will become.

Change the way you approach your problems

Whenever you are overwhelmed with problems in your life, or feel low and depressed, don’t feel bad- but just try to change the way you approach your problems. Try to work harder, study more, be flexible, think from a new angle, start all over again, and don’t forget to pray to God!

Be patient

When you have to accept change, sometimes you may want to get it over with and move on as fast as possible. But the cycle of change often takes longer than you expect, as the change has to be analyzed, communicated, integrated, and time is required to adjust to it as well.

Atlast,One can be happier and more peaceful when one accepted what had happened instead of constantly fighting to change things. Yes, acceptance is a choice—a hard one most definitely, but a choice nonetheless. Accept what’s happening, see the positive, and choose a peaceful state of mind; or fight against it, be miserable, and struggle against the universe. Acceptance, in my opinion, is the key to convert momentary happiness to enduring happiness. It helps you move from feeling happy to actually being happy.

Be Brave..Be positive..Be Happy..Keep Smiling!!

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Believe in yourself when NO ONE ELSE DOES..Dont Quit..!!

Believe in yourself when NO ONE ELSE DOES..Don't Quit..!!

"Winners are not people who never fail but people who never quit"

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,

When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,

When the funds are low and the debts are high,

And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,

When care is pressing you down a bit-

Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

The reason most people never achieve their dreams is because they simply give up. Life was never meant to be easy – it’s a constant struggle, with extreme lows and extreme highs. Remember that the times when its most important to persevere are the times that you will be most tested.“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”

Whenever quitting comes in your mind remember 3 things on which it mostly going to affect:

1. Immediate cause: 

it’s you. Obviously if you’re quieting something then its directly going to affect on you.

2. Remote cause: 

your parents, your loved one who did sacrifices for you. Whatever you do in life whatever you wants to do in life.Remember those sacrifices and value them. Do always things which they won’t regret of giving you those values and principles.

3. Ultimate cause :

 God. Who gives us life, air to breadth, energy to live the life..Have gratitude of  memory.. A good memory.

If you run alone it’s called as race but if god runs with you it’s called Grace.

Whatever may be situation…Whatever may be end result…Don’t you DARE quit. Don’t you DARE to settle. Don’t you DARE back down. Not TODAY, or any other day.When the tough moments come, NEVER FORGET, you are in THAT MOMENT, writing your legacy.
In that TOUGH MOMENT you are setting the standard for your character. 

Do you have the character?
YOU DO! 

You have to believe in yourself when NO ONE ELSE DOES.

YOU have to believe in yourself when you have NO REASON to believe!

And you WILL NEVER QUIT! 

Just remember one thing

"You just can’t beat the person who won’t give up." Last but not the least 

FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT NOW, OR Fight AGAINST what you DON’T WANT later! YOU CHOOSE!

If you have such a encouraging story or experience and wants to share with all and inspire others please do comment below.

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How to make a Choice in life

How to make a Choice in life

We human being have one of the best gift that "We are not born looser or Winner, we are born Chooser...!"

Choose what you want in life and do whatever it takes to get it or just sit and wait and cry for the things that you didn’t get choice is yours. It can take hell out of you, it can take tremendous amount hard work, In attempt to achieve what you need you will go though pain but just imagine you climbed up so high on hill then when you looked down what a great thing you have achieved. Belive me it feels so fantastic ..!! You yourself will start to admire yourself for such a journey and that beautiful destination..!! So Choose.. Decide.. and bang.. Go for it with your whole mind and soul.

Instead of being model. Be a role model.

In life you have two choices, one is to make someone your role model and follow him and be the great successor and the other one is to do something different by yourself and make yourself Role model..!! What looks more good being than people loves you and wants to be like you..!! It feels awesome right. J Yeah… it will feel awesome but just before you make out this choice make yourself to be ready for all the awesome..Fantastic and unbelievable obstacles which are going to come in your path.. Make those rocks of speed breakers as you stepping stone and BOOM… reach your dreamy life.. !! Choice is yours.

What if you choose something and you failed to achieve that.. Remember one thing.. "Every worst thing also teaches us the best thing" !!  so be brave and go for it.. If after all you planning and hard work you failed.. Never give up on it.. Just keep one thing back of your mind "Sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck" Life is ain’t only about being lucky or not but we need to have stroke of luck needed at particular instant of time in life.

IF you still finding it difficult to get right choice, look at below simple but yet effective 5 tips which can help you to make a right choice:

1. Remember that failure is a pre-requisite for success so Remove any FEARS associated with making the decision.

2. If the voice inside your head is starting to repeat its-self, switch it off! This is over-analysis in action and over-thinking makes things more difficult. Try getting your thoughts out of your head and onto paper to structure your thinking.

3. Tune in for any ‘instinctive’ feelings associated with the decision you’re about to make. Be careful not to confuse ‘instinct’ with ‘desire’. Try sitting with your decision for a while to see if it ‘lingers’ before taking action.

4. The most important thing is to Keep a balance between your head and your heart – you don’t want to throw logic out of the window, however it’s important to listen to your gut.

5. Check in with your morals. Ask yourself "Is what I’m about to do does it involves benefit of everyone?"

IF you have any questions or you want to add your experiences in life of being chooser and how it changed your life please free to comment below so other can take help of your example.

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